This is just a weird BEC thing that’s continually happening. So my JNMIL, Niagara Falls, is blocked on my phone, but not on DH. DH is VVVVVVVVLC. I’ve mentioned either in a previous post or in the comments how NF has been sending DH pics of his childhood friends and their families. Just people he hasn’t spoken to in 20 years.
Well yesterday, while we were celebrating with family and friends, NF sent DH pictures of our first home from when we lived in the same state as the in-laws. Background: after we moved, NF said she would drive the half hour to our house to just park in front and cry . The minute it went back on the market, she knew and sent us the listing url. We thought she had stopped doing that… We were wrong.
So on the 4th of July, instead of celebrating or doing something fun, NF drove half an hour out of her way to our old house to take pictures of the front of the house so we could see the new paved driveway and that the cedar trees had been removed.
I’m guessing this has something to do with her diagnosed anxiety? But I’m also trying not to read into it. Just chalking it up to BEC and moving on. DH didn’t bother to reply.