No one is coming to my wedding

So it’s been a rough time planning my wedding. To begin I had surgery a couple months ago which led to me being off work for a while and I’m still not able to work full time. My FH got laid off at one point but was off too long. But he’s back to work now working 7 days a week. So we had to downsize our wedding by a lot. But the biggest thing is family. To start I have been NC with my mom, stepdad, and 2 younger sisters for a couple of months now. My mom has convinced my sisters to hate me and that I am a horrible human being. My middle sister and I were close growing up until she moved in with me and my mom became jealous. So when my sister came home after being with her she wouldn’t speak to me for a week or had a problem with me, even though she was fine when she left. My youngest sister just had a baby about a month ago and lived with FH and I for 5-6 months of her pregnancy. We helped get her out of an abusive relationship, provided for her in every way, and helped her get on her feet . She didn’t even ask my mom for help because my mom was not willing to drive 45 minutes to get her. She lived with my mom for about 2 weeks before she called the ex to come pick her up because it was so bad. She decided to come stay with me after I was able to talk to her and express that it was not a safe environment for her, let alone a baby. My mom even made the comment that my middle sister was her problem and my youngest sister was my problem.

More recently my mother has been hands on with my youngest sister now that the baby is here. She wants to be grandmother of the year even though she didn’t help whatsoever while my sister was pregnant. My mom drove a huge wedge in between my sister and I who was suppose to be my maid of honor. Well I had to make the decision to cut them all out of my life after my mother sent some nasty texts to me after I met my niece. She weaponized the baby by using her against me, saying the baby didn’t need an aunt who doesn’t want to be part of the family. She then brought my FH and his young children into the mess, and proceeded to message my FH about how he is a terrible father and a loser. My youngest sister than messaged my FH saying to stay out of her life and to stop talking about her. Which he never even mentioned her, but again my mother manipulates to fit her narrative. That was the final straw for me and I blocked all of them and they are not welcoming at my wedding and will be asked to leave if they do come.

But what is hurting the most is my mother has called a lot of my extended family and close family friends and told them how horrible I am, even going as far as telling them I got arrested and was headed to jail. So out of the 40 people invited on my side only 4 are coming. I got a card in the mail today from our close family friend saying they are not coming. She is too afraid to stand up to my mom because she doesn’t want to ruin the friendship her husband has with my stepdad. I get that. But what upsets me the most is she said she’d support me and come after I cried to her for hours saying I felt like I had no one. It’s just another slap in the face for me.

Sorry for the long rant. I just needed to get that off my chest and am hoping for some advice and help. I’m just sad that the people who are suppose to love me and support me can’t.

A side note: my FH and his family are wonderful and accepting. I’m lucky to have them and grateful.

No one is coming to my wedding